In the end, it doesn’t even matter.

I feel instantly better when I smile, and it helps me to be kinder to others as well. A little tiny thing that can have a chain reaction. Not a bad investment of your time and energy :)

Create a morning ritual. 

Get rid of the big items. There’s tons of little clutter in our lives, but if you start with the big items, you’ll simplify your life quickly and in a big way.

There is nothing else in a world that can compete with a nice, long hot shower. The ones where you can stand around for as long as you want. Think about anything. Sing whatever you want. The ones were you come out and you feel like a new person.

Anonymous asked: I know my problem may seem pathetic but please, i just need someone to hear my story. Every one around me will just judge me if I told them so here I am, telling someone I don't even know my feelings. So there's this guy, and I'm the 'shy' person in my class but once you get to know me I am not at all shy. He's the clown. Already in so many ways, we aren't meant to be but my heart wants what it wants. He doesn't talk to me and I don't talk to him, but I notice every change he has. Every haircut, every laugh, every smile. I catch him looking my way sometimes and it fills me with hope that maybe, just maybe, he feels the same. Like always my hopes are crushed by him talking and smiling at another girl. What's worse? I think he likes my friend. She is perfect. She was the very first friend I made in high school. Doesn't help that my other friends think that he likes her too and tease her about it in front of my face, all the time. It is killing me. I just wish that he would just notice my feelings somehow and stop killing me. I would rather him break my heat once and me move on after a while then to bring my hopes up only to kill them every single time. I just want it to stop because it hurts, a lot.

There’s no chance of you finding what you’re looking for if you keep looking outside yourself. Don’t look at your friend. This obviously isn’t your best friend so who cares? You’ll find anothe friend. Leave your friend and forget about this guy. Don’t get in their business and look at this guy. Move on. get over it. You need to talk to your past friends, ask them how they are doing. Ask to meet up.

Whatever. In the end, just take some personal responsibility for your actions and your own happiness. You don’t have to wait for a guy to look at you for you to feel hope and be happy.

The best things in life aren’t things.

You can’t make everyone happy, so don’t try.

Every so often, go into your room and find something you wouldn’t miss. Give it away or throw it out, and never look back. Get rid of clutter.